but now we're getting somewhere with SSL:
.Net:
System.IO.IOException: The handshake failed due to an unexpected
packet format.
Erlang:
=ERROR REPORT==== 7-Jun-2011::15:35:11 ===
exception on TCP connection <0.398.0> from 192.168.0.20:54839
{bad_header,<<128,34,1,0,2,0,9,0>>}